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Marriage Help - What to Do When He Says He is Not "In Love" With You
Here's why. Marriage takes two. You have to be there, Revive Her Drive Review really be there with all your faculties, providing a counterpoint for your partner to struggle with/love. Remaining present, under fire sometimes, under stress most of the time, isn't so easy. It requires virtue. And virtue is, or should be, the end product of maturity. And what is virtue? Well, virtue hasn't changed much even if marriage has.
To listen attentively, with concern, requires self-control and compassion. That's two virtues. To understand and respect another's point of view when you disagree requires generosity and tolerance. Two more. To get past an argument and continue to love well requires forgiveness and patience. Two more. Are you following me? Think this is easy? To act lovingly when one doesn't feel loving requires humility, discipline, intention and a voluntary release of pride and self-righteousness.
There is always something to let go of. Usually it's an emotion that stems from our mammalian self. We've been wounded or we desire/fear something. Letting go of these feelings is essential to both marital and spiritual growth. Our base impulses, our animal instincts sometimes interfere with the expression of virtuous behavior.None of us is born perfect. But we have an opportunity, while we're alive, to improve. This growth, this maturation, requires us to overcome some of the basic animal urges we were born with. And this will help your marriage, too.
Are you eager to save your long term relationship or marriage from a break up or divorce? How long have you been working on making your relationship with your boyfriend, husband, girlfriend or wife much better than what it is today? And how successful are you in your quest to prevent a break up or divorce? The truth is that your ability to manage your relationship with your spouse or partner could make or mar your future career whether in politics or in business.